After a recent hurtful break up I got chatting to a guy (online) through a friend .
He is extremely good looking but made it clear that he isn't monogamous, but could offer a fwb type arrangement. He asked if I'd like to meet and said if I wasn't feeling it it would go no further. I'd seen him on a few sites including hook up sites . He told me last weekend he'd met a couple in a hotel for sex .
I said I'd meet him next week . (Why? I don't know )
He then messaged saying he wanted a slut in the bedroom, hold ups , heels etc . Ok . I'm not averse to that .
But then he messaged, saying he's arranged for another guy to join us along with a run down of what they'd do to me - reads like a terrible porn thing with me basically being used by them both in every way imaginable. He seems to think I'd enjoy this experience.
I haven't yet responded. He has seemingly arranged this without asking , without consent , and we haven't even met .
Clearly I am not going through with this arrangement. Even if I was into that kind of thing - he's not asked ,
Do I just block and ignore ? Or respond . I don't even know what to say .
Wtf .