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To be put off by this or just banter?

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Wasabihelp · 17/06/2022 00:49

Been having a flirty chat with a friend of a friend and they made a couple of comments which I’m not sure how to take...

We were joking around about not knowing how to live off without certain apps and they said “Omg what you’re thick as shit” when I jokingly said I didn’t know how to do something obvious - this is very much their sense of humour but seemed pretty abrupt. Laughed it off though.

we then both swapped photos of an experience we’d recently been on. Mine was flattering and his was nice too. I said how good he looked on his and he said “hmm 4/10” re mine to which I said “harsh” - he then said “sorry you look great! Just thought you were fishing”

I think the second one did get me a bit because the first is a blunt joke, the second just makes me feel disingenuous for sharing anything where I might seem anything other than modest :S

OP posts:
CatherinedeBourgh · 17/06/2022 22:26

If this is his version of flirting, I dread to think what he's like when he's not flirting.

worriedaboutmoney2022 · 17/06/2022 23:20

How old are you? 14??

teaandtoastplease · 17/06/2022 23:22

Player001 · 17/06/2022 04:34

I read this as him being completely full of himself. He believes you are totally into him and he can treat you like shit and you'll take it.

Run

Totally agree with this. Major ref flags, run for the hills.

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