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Has he lost interest

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Meowykitten · 08/05/2022 21:51

Guy from gym I seen a few times he has went to work abroad - we have a date set for meeting again when he gets back couple of weeks. Do I just wait until he is back to let things take off organically if that is whats meant to happen? or would you expect phone calls / video chats etc?

I am getting a bit worried he has lost interest because he does not text much - but I do not know him that well - so it might be normal for him. Also he is really nice in person. He remembers things I have said from previous texts when we talk and reply - I think he is a deep thinker.

The dates were so good but neither do I want to keep texting him if he is not that interested. I suppose he would be a dick in that case - because we arranged to see each other the Friday he gets back.

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seensome · 08/05/2022 22:01

I wouldn't expect much communication unless you've decided to start being exclusive, you say you've seen him a few times, you must have some idea.
I would just put him in the back of your mind for now and wait for him to contact you when he's back, if he does this then you'll know he's interested.

Meowykitten · 08/05/2022 22:02

seensome · 08/05/2022 22:01

I wouldn't expect much communication unless you've decided to start being exclusive, you say you've seen him a few times, you must have some idea.
I would just put him in the back of your mind for now and wait for him to contact you when he's back, if he does this then you'll know he's interested.

No where near the exclusive stage whatsoever.

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Overthewine · 09/05/2022 00:03

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