Nearly 3 years ago my partner cheated on me at a work party, he told me about it and over time managed to get past it. Over the last couple of weeks Iv started to get Abit paranoid and feel like it's going to happen again but he very rarely goes out. We was recently out at a pub with friends and a girl came over while I was there and said il have that drink now...I didn't say anything at the time as didn't want a performance, but morning after he says he was only been polite and offered one at the bar, I don't know how to handle it, we have 2 kids and a house together. Does he want to be with me? He doesn't mix well with alcohol he goes too far.