Confusing

[Louise87657]

So I went on a date with a guy we got on really well had a laugh got really drunk, yes I probably made a right idiot of myself but I’m not beating myself up about it I apologised and he was also very drunk!
nothing came of it and he went really distant after the date! Fine move on!
i tried to message and meet up again but I could tell he wasn’t interested and I was putting all the effort in this time rather than before it was him!
its just strange because I feel something is there if that makes sense
I meet him on a night out months ago we texted a little bit then I wasn’t feeling it,
then months later I messaged him and we really hit it off went on a date and he must not have been feeling it!
he hasn’t removed or deleted me off socials and he watches all my stories!
Now I have matched on tinder with him
do I send him a funny message on tinder? Or is this one you would leave?

Leave it alone - he knows your interested and hasn’t responded, don’t lower yourself by trying over and over.

Yep definitely leave it alone. I had similar with someone recently. We'd been chatting for ages, really hit it off (so I thought). Had a date that was lots of fun, I waited for him to get in touch to follow up which he did... Two days later he pretty much ghosted me. I don't know what the issue was, but I knew there was no point flogging a dead horse. Move on to the next OP

If he wanted to, you'd know about it.

Don't invite people who confuse you into your life, unless you like feeling confused.