My husband and I have 3 children and one particular night in the week is busier than usual. Anyway I asked my husband if he could pick up our son from sports club at 8 and he says he can’t he’s working late. Anyway he tells me later that night his friend came to see him at work as he needed to talk about his problems. So he lied to me about working late Fast forward to tonight he goes in to the shop and I have a look in his purse (out of boredom) and I see a pub bill for 28€In the night he said he was with his friend at work . Anyway he comes back to the car and he admits he had 1 beer at the pub and I say I found the bill for 28€ so it was more than 1 beer !! I dont care if he goes out but his lies have been a huge problem in our couple! We even went to counselling for 2 years mainly because of this!!