Apparently I wasn’t kinky enough

[BloodyNora79]

Not sure why I’m posting here, probably as I’m in absolute hysterics and needed to share!

Separated from ‘D’H for a while now - he walked out on me blaming mental health. I assumed OW/fling but none has surfaced. He wants me back and is in denial about impending divorce.

During another telephone call he said ‘well you weren’t kinky enough anyway’ I’ve never laughed so hard in my life - my other qualities much outweigh my lack of kinkiness and I feel that this comment just sums him up and his potential reasons for leaving.

Good riddance to an emotionally immature pervert 😊

I agree with you. You should have laughed at him on the phone. Kinkyness is not kinkyness between consenting adults, it just normal 'fit' what makes him so wierd he couldnt talk about sex when he was with you.
Definitely get rid.

Wow. What a passive aggressive thing to say. Like he's blaming any break-up of your relationship on you, and the only thing he could think of to paint you in a bad light is your lack of kink?! Like that's a bad thing?! What a man-child.

This reminds me of an old boyfriend who told everyone he broke up with me because i was bad at sex.
we were 14 at the time and never even had sex 🤔
your DH seems to be just as mature as that boy.

I did laugh down the phone. It’s honestly the best thing he’s said - showed his true colours and his reasons for leaving.
I genuinely can’t stop laughing. What a fool.

What a pathetic little man. Good riddance to bad rubbish.

Hahaha what a weirdo. Show you did the right thing by making sure he stayed gone. Good luck finding someone who wants to shag you mate

Oh God, I suppose he’s going to impose himself on some other poor woman now..

Sounds like he's been watching porn.

Good for him. He can spend his time in a sad little bedroom, wanking away to the sight of exploited (barely legal) women on his screen and consider himself 'fulfilled'.
Pathetic.
Fuck him and fuck his muzzle mask and his gimp suit.
Good riddance. Looks like you found the hills! 👏
It's not too early for champagne, OP!

What a self entitled idiot. Lucky you divorcing him. Imagine him saying to a new potential partner that you were not kinky enough. What a knob head. You are free from this horrible person and deserve so much better and well done to you for realizing your worth.