I didn't know DH would be the way he is, it's a let down for sure. I'm walking dead yet still doing 99% of the parenting. When I ask him to do stuff it's just like the old washing up trick, do a crap job hope they don't ask you again. I feel sorry for the DC. He slept more than me last night, isn't sick, yet still got a nap...I didn't 
Bloody men. Disclaimer - yes I know not all men are like this.