Sorry this is going to be long. DP woke me up at 7am this morning trying to initiate sex. I told him no as I wanted some more sleep. I was just dozing off when he tried again. Maybe I shouldn’t have but this time I told him to fuck off. I eventually fell back asleep but was woken up yet again by him getting out of bed and slamming the bedroom door. I didn’t think too much of it, I thought it may have been a mistake until I came down stairs and he wouldn’t speak to me. I asked him what his problem was and he said nothing. After another half an hour or so of ignoring me, I told him if something is bothering him I’d rather speak about it. Again, he told me nothing was the matter. Fast forward an hour later, we were in the car on our way to shopping. He tells me that he isn’t happy that I didn’t want sex. He basically said our sex life is boring and he doesn’t get it enough. He then starts calling me weird and said I’m a nun. He says that this is the reason why men cheat and that if he knew our sex life was going to be like this he wouldn’t have gone into a relationship with me. We’ve been together 9 years and have 2 young children. We have sex on average 2/3 times a week. I will admit that when I get into bed sometimes I do just want to go to sleep. He does have a higher sex drive than me and admittedly there are only a few times a month when my sex drive is high. But when we are having sex I do enjoy it. I’m just really hurt by his words and I don’t know what to say to him. I do feel really guilty that he feels this way