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This text after first date ?

6 replies

backtothestarting · 01/04/2022 15:59

Went in first date, unsure how it went really, seemed to get on had a nice time, we have had this convo since but not sure

Him: sorry I took you to a shithole, mortified 😱

Me: no problem, Least it gave us something to laugh about, it could of been worse 🤣

Him: Yeah maybe if we didn’t speak 😕

What does he mean by this last message maybe if we didn't speak ?

I have since had a happy Friday text mid morning but nothing since

OP posts:
TheSparkling · 01/04/2022 16:01

I would guess he's saying the only good thing about the evening was that you were talking to him.
Just bite the bullet and ask him if he wants to meet again? (But somewhere different)

GeneLovesJezebel · 01/04/2022 16:02

Yeah, it sounds like talking to you was the only good bit.

Minikievs · 01/04/2022 16:03

Agree with pp. The only thing that made the date better was speaking to you.....so it could only have been worse if the pair of you didn't speak.

It's a clumsy compliment

JungleJimbo · 01/04/2022 16:05

He's saying it could have been worse- it could have been a bad date but it wasn't, because you had lots to talk about

Not sure why you're implying it's bad that you haven't heard from him since mid morning. Why don't you reply to him?

Newpjamas · 01/04/2022 16:06

Same as above
Id take it as it would have been worse if yous had had nothing to speak about
I wouldn’t worry as you said he sent u a good morning txt
Anyway id just say what did u meab by that txt I wouldn’t be shy in asking things like this anymore

Dimondsareforever · 01/04/2022 23:06

Agree with other posters. He saying it would be worse if you didn’t speak. I.e it wasn’t ‘worse’ because you did speak and got along!
Have fun on date 2!

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