Meeting through OLD, any tips?

[AssignedBlobbyAtBirth]

I have recently joined an OLD site. I met one bloke which was pretty bad. Too many issues and seemed to want me to be a therapist
Luckily it was only for a drink so I got out easily. I'm meeting another guy this week
It must feel awkward initially, how do you overcome that and how many dates do you give it before you decide if its worth carrying on?
First guy I knew straight away, actually I realised as soon as I'd agreed to meet him and should have cancelled. As soon as I'd agreed to meet him he started telling me all his problems

I wouldn't worry about what hasn't happened yet. You knew the last date didn't go well and you will know if future.
If it's not fun and you don't feel excitement about seeing him again, then he's not for you.

It's ok to cancel a date if you have any doubts and don't feel obliged in the first place, only go if really want to.