Over the years, I have seen so many posts where initially someone posts about what might seem a minor or almost trivial issue, only for the OP to open up and reveal some horrendous abuse and coercive control. There has been wonderful support by other Mumsnetters in those cases. Just wondered if there could be a sticky post added at the top that could list some of the best and most sensible advice for women (it's mostly women to preempt any whataboutthemenz posts) how to safely leave their abusers. A list of practical information and resources etc to help women who feel trapped?