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Passive aggressive commentsdb

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countrylady2 · 25/03/2022 12:59

My team have a big task to do. My colleague keeps making passive remarks about me not helping with the task and I am helping but I have a different role to do in the task so it is taking me a lot longer. I have explained to her what I am doing but she is not interested. She keeps shouting out random passive aggressive comments. Yet other team members are making sure they go walkabout and chat to other colleagues and not do any work or work from home so they are not helping yet she doesn't target them. What is the best way to respond to this situation? This person is not my line manager and my manager is well aware I am working hard. I actually feel I am working too hard and rushing and burning out yet this is the way I am being treated with nasty comments.

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iklboo · 25/03/2022 13:07

'What exactly is your problem X? I'd rather you tell me to my face than make passive aggressive remarks'.

countrylady2 · 25/03/2022 15:51

@iklboo I should confront them. Even a manager who is walking around the building doing nothing and chatting to colleagues has walked past and said why I am not doing the task which I said I have been and I had packed up as we are due to finish for the day. These people are disgusting and disrespectful.

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