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Friend has no trust

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countrylady2 · 24/03/2022 11:14

My friend is insecure in relationships as her ex partner cheated on her with 2 different people. Her new partner she knew from school days. She has admitted in front of me and him she checks her new partner's phone as she doesn't trust him. Even though she had 2 separate Facebook accounts which he only found out about her glamour modeling account from my friends list and this account she has random men from all over the world commenting on her photos. So it's ok for her to keep secrets.

Her partner messaged me yesterday to set me up with his friend. She has messaged me today she heard I spoke to her partner yesterday. Now, I have told her he contacted me to set me up with his friend and he was telling me about his friend. He puts kisses on his messages which I don't and I am not the last to reply. No offence to her but I don't want sloppy seconds and her new partner is unemployed and so is she and he has a substance abuse problem with drinking large amounts of alcohols and using many cigarettes on a daily basis so I would hardly call him a catch. Bit insulted to think she thinks I would mess around with a friend's partner.

It's funny cos when they broke up she was in touch all the time with me and now they are back together she is only getting in touch asking me why I was speaking to him not asking how I am in general etc. He has only ever messaged me twice about his friend, I don't reach out to him.

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Whatinthelord · 24/03/2022 11:19

Why are you friends with them?

countrylady2 · 24/03/2022 17:48

@Whatinthelord

Why are you friends with them?
You are right. They are all demonstrating low value behaviour.
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