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Ex obsessed with naked pics..

11 replies

stircrazyabc · 18/03/2022 15:19

My ex (I was with 9 years and share two children with) and I split up 6 months ago.
He has some naked photos of me that he's obsessed with. He says he spends too much time looking at them and would love me to send them to others to see what they say. I've asked him to delete them. He never talks about anything else to me just about what was our sex life.
Why is he like this?

OP posts:
biggreenhouse · 18/03/2022 15:23

because he's a perverted manipulative weirdo? block him and tell the police if he's threatening any sort of revenge porn.

Thingsdogetbetter · 18/03/2022 15:27

Cos he's an asshole! It really is that simple. He wants you to agree to have sex with him, but doesn't want the relationship. He is getting off on discussing sex with you. Why are you listening to this creepy shit??

Tell him if he shares them with anyone you will call the police as that is illegal.

Stop responding to his sex comments! Tell him you will only respond to questions about his contact with the dc. That is it. You are not his wank fancy!!

Fayekrista · 18/03/2022 15:44

@Thingsdogetbetter

Cos he's an asshole! It really is that simple. He wants you to agree to have sex with him, but doesn't want the relationship. He is getting off on discussing sex with you. Why are you listening to this creepy shit??

Tell him if he shares them with anyone you will call the police as that is illegal.

Stop responding to his sex comments! Tell him you will only respond to questions about his contact with the dc. That is it. You are not his wank fancy!!

Exactly this! ⬆️
Aquamarine1029 · 18/03/2022 15:48

Because he's a perverted freak and it's a damn shame you ever sent that freak your photos.

Easterbunnyiswindowshopping · 18/03/2022 15:49

Glad you are enjoying yourself.
Shame your dick pics weren't worth keeping....
And block.

me4real · 18/03/2022 15:53

He's sleazy, and either wanting you to shag him again and/or he's getting off on making you feel uncomfortable.

Justcallmebebes · 18/03/2022 16:13

Report him to the police. Threatening to share them or holding then over you is revenge porn and it's now against the law and usually results in a custodial sentence. A couple of weeks inside will soon shut him up.

Crikeyalmighty · 18/03/2022 16:16

Is he a bit dim ? The only blokes I’ve ever met who banged on about their sex lives to this extent and exemption of all other subjects were all a bit lacking on the intellect front —

AHungryCaterpillar · 18/03/2022 16:16

I would report it tbh… he’s probably already shared them.

Littlebylittlelittle · 18/03/2022 21:03

Yes I would definitely tell him your going to report him to authorities . Who the hell do these men think they are

DenholmElliot · 18/03/2022 21:16

I agree with the PP who said he probably enjoys making you feel uncomfortable.

And only reply to content about the kids. You don't have to engage with any other conversation with him.

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