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UPDATE ON dd's dad controlling behavior

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Jackson21 · 02/03/2022 07:30

Hi everyone

just a little update following my last thread and dd and her dad controlling etc.

I have a solictors appointment at 10am today. Had more abuse from him last night after he told dd on monday night that he was being to sent the UKraine (hes ex army) and he wouldnt be able to see her. Then the stepmum rang dd and said daddys going to war, this obviously made dd very upset. An hour later daddy said I was joking! I mean seriously!

thanks for all the advice xx

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Shainago · 02/03/2022 07:34

What the actual f...
Dumb and dumber.

Hope your DD is feeling better. And best of luck with the sollicitor

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Jackson21 · 02/03/2022 08:59

thank you so much

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Inthesameboatatmo · 02/03/2022 09:20

Good luck today op.
That is some seriously fucked up things to say to dd.

youvegottenminuteslynn · 02/03/2022 15:38

Wow. He's an emotionally abusive cunt isn't he? How cruel. Your poor DD.

SamphiretheStickerist · 02/03/2022 15:42

How hard and long did your solicitor laugh for?

I hope you had some good advice and feel you can act on it.

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Jackson21 · 02/03/2022 16:03

Thank you. After spending an hour on the phone she has given me a face appointment on Friday. 100% agrees I should go back to court, but its funding as I don't get legal aid whereas he will so I will have to represent myself.

I'm honestly shocked at what he said to dd about going to war and his wife is so stupid she believes him!

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