So I've been messaging a man who is slow to return messages and I can't tell if he is very laid back/not too keen or just quite shy. We met for a drink last night and both drove home and swapped a couple of messages to say we had both got back safely due to the storm. He was driving today to stay with a friend but he hasn't messaged me. I've not been on the dating scene for years and have no idea what happens next but I don't like playing games. Do I just assume he has ghosted me or message to thank him for the drink and move on. I'm not that bothered either way but hate waiting around!