Hurting

[hurtingmama]

My husband has used our joint bank account to pay for a weekend away with another woman. I have logged on and seen it. We have separated but I am beyond devastated

Ahh that's awful, how horrible for you and how utterly horrible he is to do that. Have you got someone in rl that can offer you some comfort/support?

@antwacky

Ahh that's awful, how horrible for you and how utterly horrible he is to do that. Have you got someone in rl that can offer you some comfort/support?

I have my mum who is looking after me. It's so hurtful.

Can you separate your finances Have your own account and then try not to look. I know how hard that is. It's like picking at a scab.

Try to distract yourself with other things.

Hope you have good people around you.

Time to tell him to have separate bank accounts and he can pay into yours for anything owed.

I have a separate bank account. Just with the same bank so when I log onto to my new account, both accounts are there. My bank need him to go in and sign a form to remove myself but he hasn't done it. He has been asked. He knows I can see it, he knows I've opened and account with the same bank so I can't avoid seeing it.