Attracted to my sons best frd father

[gg12346]

My marriage is anyways on the rocks , I have no attraction for my sons father and I think its the same with him .
Recently I help babysitting my sons frd and his father comes and drops him and then take them to the club together and then he picks him up from myplace .
I dont know but I feel so attracted to him and he is so nice in talking to me .He takes care of his kids while his wife is at work .
I feel so much like a women with him .
My own relationship with my hubby sucks ,there is no spark and all my
hubby says to live in separate rooms so no sex as well .
I have tried to work on my marriage but I think my needs from marriage are very different from my hubbys .What should I do ?
I am thinking of refusing to babysit my sons frds since one day.

I am thinking of refusing to babysit my sons frd since I think it might go out of hands some day .

Being attracted to someone is normal. Ive had the hots for the occasional school dad over the years. Dont overthink it and dont do anything about it.
Your own relationship issues are seperate. You need to decide whether you want to end it and how. Ignore the other guy. He is off limits. He is not your guy either

@Branleuse

Its never easy to end any relationship when children are involved .Specially when its a 15 year old relationship.You are right I am just overthinking .
thanks for advise

[quote gg12346]@Branleuse

Its never easy to end any relationship when children are involved .Specially when its a 15 year old relationship.You are right I am just overthinking .
thanks for advise[/quote]
Its not easy. Its an awful decision to make, but you cant live like that forever

@gg12346

I am thinking of refusing to babysit my sons frd since I think it might go out of hands some day .

Good idea.

Sort out your relationship, or leave it. Don’t think about trying to destroy someone else’s family.

Do you really think it would be all romantic, you having to go out to work to support him, his kids, plus yours? What bit about his situation makes you think you should be in his wifes place?

nothing ,I just told you I was attracted to him.