My long term boyfriend took me out on our first child free weekend in a year (5 boys between us)
He had made it sound like he planned amazing things and we’d have a really special day alone. I got dressed up and couldn’t wait to see what he’d planned.
The moment arrived and I learned we would be going for a walk and picnic, then back home to watch telly and cook for him as per usual.
To say I was disappointed was an under statement. I cried and said some things I didn’t mean because I was so underwhelmed and dressed like we were going for dinner or somewhere nice, to be left standing in a cold muddy field with squashed sandwiches.
Now I know this makes me sound like a selfish brat, maybe I am, but he let me believe I’d be getting spoilt after weeks of discussing ideas. We go for picnics and walks all the time with the boys so I hoped a weekend alone would include new exciting experiences.
I didn’t let him stay the night and I haven’t answered his calls today as I’m so upset.
I’m seriously considering ending it due to incompatibility but the thought of letting him go hurts me more than a crap date.
I’m willing to accept comments that I’m unreasonable but any advice would really help right now.