I know it's not the thing to do, but I've looked at DH's phone a few times over the past couple of years. And often he leaves it just lying around open anyway and the kids pick it up to play a game, I answer it if it rings etc etc. He doesn't seem to be aware that his google is linked to our son's tablet, and that if I go on there I can see everything in DH's search history.
Anyway, I happened to look this morning when I got up and on the lock screen were two notifications - "find sexy girls in your local area" and "would you like to have sex with me" followed by a little icon underneath saying there are 233 more notifications....
Now the question is, could there be an innocent explanation?? Has he maybe been on a dodgy site and is now getting bombarded with ads? I often get emails myself telling me to buy various pills and devices to 'elongate my manliness' and 'stop disappointing in bed', clearly I haven't been looking for this as a woman! Or is he on an app? I don't want to go confronting him on this if he can easily talk his way out of it, or if it's not even his fault. Or to let on that I've snooped. And obviously I wouldn't want the kids seeing this.
To finish with, I would like him to have gone looking for it elsewhere as we are on the verge of splitting, and this would be my opportunity to tell him to go once and for all, without feeling such terrible guilt for wanting out myself...
I realise this is quite messy, but would appreciate some advice just on where these notifications could have come from if anyone has seen similar.