I’ve spent the last year roller coasting with my ex. On. Off. Maybe. On. Off.
This evening, I broke no contact to just say to him that we’re adults and don’t need to hide from each other. We didn’t have major issues, just wrong timing.
Anyhoo. I feel like a different person. I feel like I’ve flicked the V to the dating and relationship gurus and just made it about us. It’s a journey. We are over but at least we are talking and it was me that ended it.
What I’ve done is remove the Shellshock and the hell that was caused by no contact.
I don’t know what it means long term but we’re talking and that is a start. It has to be a fresh start.