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Sexy music

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LittleKitten1 · 22/01/2022 10:01

I have a new(ish) sexual partner. We are keeping things casual and enjoying each others company.

He has asked me to wear lingerie for him.
We have a date next week and I have bought something sexy to wear underneath for afterwards.

But I am quite an awkward person. I think I'll get the giggles if I'm just stood there in sexy lingerie and heels. I can't visualise it.

Do I sit down, do I stand when he walks in the room? I'm not sure I'll be able to look the part. Ok, I'm overthinking this.

Music might help? In the background. Something a bit sexy.. or at least not un-sexy. Could anyone recommend a song / artist or perhaps a Spotify playlist please?

That might help relax me while also helping set the mood.

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SantanaBinLorry · 22/01/2022 10:11

Al Green

crosbystillsandmash · 22/01/2022 10:11

It's sounds a little like you're doing this because he's asked you to and not because it's something you enjoy?

Dh asked me to wear sexy lingerie when we were first together but I declined, it's not for me and has certainly never impacted on our sex life!
If he'd have sulked, I'd have shown him the door!

crosbystillsandmash · 22/01/2022 10:12

But just in case you would genuinely enjoy doing this for him, anything by Portishead!

junglejane66 · 22/01/2022 10:56

Agadoo or Rabbit, Chas and Dave

Gymrats · 22/01/2022 10:59

As your doing that for him and fee a little awkward I think it’s best you choose music that YOU think is sexy and would get you in the mood rather than something you think he may find sexy music.

Robin233 · 22/01/2022 11:04

I love waring sexy underwear.
But define sexy underwear....if you're attracted to someone and they stripped down to their underwear (as long as they are clean and not full of holes ) is enough to do the job.
Ware what you feel comfortable.
I think you need to get to know each other a bit better maybe before doing this.

LittleKitten1 · 22/01/2022 11:19

I am quite keen to try it. Might not do it again but I'll give it a go

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inheritancetrack · 22/01/2022 11:32

Define sexy underwear? Most women would wear pretty lacy tiny pants and a lovely bra, and probably the suspenders belt and stockings (is that a thing any more) but split crotches and peephole bras, can go fuck himself.

Unanananana · 22/01/2022 11:44

Classic FM

LittleKitten1 · 22/01/2022 18:16

Define sexy underwear? Most women would wear pretty lacy tiny pants and a lovely bra, and probably the suspenders belt and stockings (is that a thing any more) but split crotches and peephole bras, can go fuck himself.

I have got a black baby doll from Ann summers, a thong and hold up stockings.
So maybe not pushing the boat out.. but not things I'd ordinarily wear for sex or otherwise.

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Ohmycron · 22/01/2022 18:17

@junglejane66

Agadoo or Rabbit, Chas and Dave
Lol
brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 22/01/2022 19:40

Pulp, This Is Hardcore

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