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personality transplant after booze...help

15 replies

hippy13 · 27/12/2007 22:35

Can't bear it much longer

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hippy13 · 27/12/2007 22:36

talkin about my dh not me

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FlamesparodyOfAChristmasName · 27/12/2007 22:37

Yours or DP?

What kind of change? I am assuming not for the better (if it is DP) - if it is yours and it is for the better I guess that is worrying too!

SlartyBartFast · 27/12/2007 22:37

{sad} for you,
tell more

FlamesparodyOfAChristmasName · 27/12/2007 22:37

lol crossed posts

hippy13 · 27/12/2007 22:38

He just has to pick a fight in some round about way...he has to be right and is argumeentative

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hippy13 · 27/12/2007 22:39

Abit of a bully i spose but latly he will even pick on my ds, sometimes dd, they are teenagers

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SlartyBartFast · 27/12/2007 22:40

[sigh{}
sounds like mine

hippy13 · 27/12/2007 22:44

Started on ds tonight about whether he will get a job when he is 16(sat job i mean), or "Are you going to lounge inbed for the rest of your life" Its the hols he is 15 what can i say. He helps around the house anyway he is very good like that

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FlamesparodyOfAChristmasName · 27/12/2007 22:48

I either cry or go slutty

I think alcohol affects us all differently - if it isn't a very regular thing I wouldn't be desperately worried.

Maybe I am soft - normal MN rules would tell you he has ishoos and suggest Counselling.

hippy13 · 27/12/2007 22:53

It is fairly regular about twice a month. I can grin and bear it but my boy, he never answers back i have to stick up for him then he slags me off for turning him into a wuss

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hippy13 · 27/12/2007 22:54

my dh slags me off i mean not my ds

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FlamesparodyOfAChristmasName · 27/12/2007 22:54

Your son needs to be out of the situation - no drinking with him awake, or get him out of the way.

hippy13 · 27/12/2007 22:56

But sometimes it is only about 7 or 8 and if ds walks into room...it is hard

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hippy13 · 27/12/2007 22:57

I am lovely when drunk love everybody etc

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FlamesparodyOfAChristmasName · 27/12/2007 22:57

He is drunk by 7/8 or it happens with the first glass of wine/bottle of beer?

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