Went on a 3rd date with a really nice guy. The nicest (and hottest) I've met in ages. I was sure the first kiss would happen on date 3 especially as we'd been out for a few drinks so Dutch courage and all that.
He gave me a hug goodbye but that's it. We haven't held hands, he hasn't touched my arm/back/leg nothing. He text me when I got home to say he'd had fun and to let him know if I fancied a 4th date.
Now I know the usual mumsnet response is I could initiate things, but i really struggle with confidence in that sense (but not with initiating dates etc). I'm wondering if there's any point having a 4th to be honest and whether he's into me at all?! My friend said he may just not be sure if I like him but the fact I keep turning up on dates should be a clue?!
He's a nice guy so I don't want to be a dick about it but I don't feel any connection is building like it normally would when you've kissed. We're just 2 strangers hanging out still.
What would you do?!