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Tinder trouble !

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BeepBoopBop · 17/01/2022 08:29

Nothing salacious, I joined Tinder 3 days ago and have had not one like. Not one. I'm away from home in a small city, so thought Tinder would be great for meeting new male friends (after being dumped in a horrific way late last year). I am nice looking, blonde hair, put decent photos up, decent bio. Nothing. I keep checking that I have everything enabled on the app, but can't see anything that I've done wrong. Does anyone have any ideas?

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mrsnec · 17/01/2022 08:36

I don't have much advice apart from to say the same happened to me on 3 different sites and I found it soul destroying. You are not alone. I got a lot of support on here but I won't be doing it again. It did a lot of damage. I wasn't strong enough to take so much rejection.

anotherdisaster · 17/01/2022 09:54

Have you been right swiping on lots of men?

BeepBoopBop · 17/01/2022 13:02

I'm not feeling soul-destroyed, I genuinely think something is wrong 😂. I'm on Facebook dating and lots of likes & conversations.... mainly too far away.
Not doing that many likes, no. I've even messaged Tinder - no response.

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Forrandomposts · 17/01/2022 13:03

Thunder is about matches, so if you're not swiping yes, you're not going to get any!

Forrandomposts · 17/01/2022 13:03

*tinder

BeepBoopBop · 17/01/2022 13:06

Ahh, that makes sense. I'll put more effort in.

@mrsnec please don't judge your worth on dating site randoms. IRL you are awesome and don't forget that!

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mrsnec · 17/01/2022 18:40

I was doing loads of likes and getting no response and had set 20 year age range and 250 mile radius!

Wasn't great for the old self esteem. Trying to build myself up again before I figure out my next move. But thanks @BeepBoopBop the penny hasn't quite dropped yet but I'm getting there.

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