I’m late 40s and divorced, have dated a bit and had one sort of relationship but I’ve now met someone a bit more serious. We’re sleeping together and using condoms but would both like to ditch them. I’m on the Pill as it helps with my periods so no problems there.
What’s the safe thing to do before we get rid of them? Should we be taking STI tests? It’s seems sensible but also feels very clinical. Do people really do this?