DH is a good man in general, but our 10 year marriage is over. I've been mentally leaving for a while now. He won't go to counselling over the issues that we have and I can't go on as we are any longer. We don't have children. I'm going to go and stay with my parents for a while. Despite our issues, I think it will come as a shock to him. I love him and I don't want to hurt him.
I just don't know what to do. Logistically. Do I tell him face to face? What do I say? Do I have a suitcase prepacked? Do I do it after work one evening, or on a weekend? When do I need to contact a solicitor?
This is the only serious relationship I've ever had, so I've never split up with someone before.