How to avoid ex’s on dating sites?

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My exH found his affair partners on dating websites, Bumble but could be others. We’ve been separated now since June last year and I’m thinking at some point this year I might feel ready to try and meet someone again. However, I don’t want to come across him or more importantly, have him seeing me on any dating site. For those where this also bothers them, how do you avoid it!!

Are there some sites where you can block someone, but not sure how I’d do that if I didn’t know his user name etc!

I just want to be free on the sites without worry he’ll see me on there. I know its none of his business but I'd rather not even do it if it means he'll see me on there. Its my private business and I just don’t want him to know I’m trying to date again when the time comes.

Thanks for any responses.

No, sadly, I haven't. I seem to encounter men who lie to me, ironically lol. Clearly I need to pick better but I'm yet to find a man who says what they mean, and means what they say. I'm in no rush, good job really because it's been very difficult to find!

Ah that’s a shame. I was hoping to hear some positive news from you. I think I’m going to give it a bit longer and think about it some more. I hope things get better for you I guess you never know who is around the corner.