Partner says “I don’t like you”

[Gogo11]

Been together very up and down for over 10 years. Lately this keeps coming up doesn’t like me.. I am 11 weeks and would rather stay away. He cheated this time last year so when he’s off I do throw her name out and he gets so defensive is it guilt or he misses her?

Any advice is appreciated thank you xx

You are only 31, FGS, you have years yet to have children with a decent man who will be a good father. Your ex is horrible and I would never burden a child with a father like that, nevermind you will be stuck having this man in your life for years and years to come. Sorry, but I would terminate this pregnancy. You can tell people you had a miscarriage.

Thank you Jessie haystack and starlight I have booked in for appointment with doctor for call Saturday only going to call first thing in morning to see if can be seen quicker. I don’t want to have any contact with him or to burden the child with the toxic family start in life. Thank you all again I know what’s best for me and all involved to not be pregnant. X

@Jessie75

You’re gonna be stuck with a man who doesn’t like you for 18 years a hell of a sentence OP

This.

Consider termination OP.

@Gogo11
One day you’re gonna be a mama to some beautiful children with a wonderful man stood by your side supporting you all the way.

It will be a tricky few months but I don’t believe you will look back 🥰

Much love to you @Gogo11

You are yet young. Really. You have time and you should not have this waster in your life for the next 18 years. Do what is best for you. Forget him, his parents or anyone else. Having a termination will help you move on.