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He can't/won't hold an emotional connection

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Glowingsnow · 01/01/2022 20:47

We started dating in the summer and would see eachother once a week on average however he would make no communication with me in-between dates as in call or text which I felt would have helped us get to know each other better (I did reach out and call him at times). He is very loving when we are together and things have progressed slightly etc but he can happily (so it seems) go without seeing me or contacting me but if I contact him, he immediately makes himself available. I genuinely feel he is into me and he talks about the future with us etc.

AIBU to break it off as I find it very confusing as to why he is making it so hard to have a emotional connection as I feel this is needed to bring us closer and move forward.

I have spoken to him about it in the past but things have not improved. I don't know if he has any connection issues, protecting himself or what, I find it very confusing and frustrating and debating whether to start the new year fresh without him.

OP posts:
Janjan22 · 07/01/2022 12:56

@tweatypie could have written your reply world for work except I was with mine for years. It’s a very hard thing to move on from

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