Do you oh’s bring children into arguments

[Amandagrace]

Oh having a moan telling me to get car to garage i tell him i am taking it once i get paid- he says to dc oh your mum cant be bothered getting the car fixed then ds says ye mum you need to take it to get fixed

Another one I forgot to buy juice- dd asked for a drink
Oh said oh no your mum didn’t buy juice again so you can’t have juice
(This was after me arriving back from pet store) oh was going food shopping later that afternoon so I didn’t feel the need to buy juice whilst i was out

Anyway these are examples of it it really annoys me I don’t think they should be brought into this

That's awful behaviour

He sounds like a child.
In your place I would tell the dc not too worry, mummy is going to get the car fixed. Daddy has made a mistake.
Then I would tell your oh to grow up and stop undermining you. It’s going to lead to anxiety with your dc.

Thanks
I told him but hes playing it down
But ds is starting to cooy him in the way he speaks to me

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And i will add the work on car is just cosmetic- it still drives and oh has a car of his own so not as tho we a desperate for it to be fixed it just looks scruffy

Obviously this has to stop
Why is he being such a cunt over trivial matters ? Why can’t he pay/ take car to be fixed ?
Hopefully he is supportive the rest of the time?