I'm seriously thinking of leaving dp.
He has always been quiet but then so am I. He literally doesn't talk to me and the kids. He doesn't tell me anything what's going on in his life. He just leaves the house and I don't know where he's gone. I have to ring him.
I ask open ended questions about work, events, news , anything to just get a fucking conversation out but nothing. The most I get is a one or two worded answer and the worst part of it is that he doesn't make eye contact when he speaks to me! He ignores me too. I have to ask him a question a couple of times before he answers. He's not hard of hearing. I'm stood right next to him! He's generally grumpy and it's a real turn off.
He hardly spends anytime with us a family or even his own. I love my ILs and we regularly get together and he never turns up. Wedding invites, parties, family gatherings, births - all I have to attend alone with the kids. He only attends if he absolutely has to like his brothers wedding.
On Xmas Eve he told me that evening he was spending it with his friends and that on Xmas day he was going on a hike with his friend! Thankfully friend cancelled but that was only because I asked dp why he hadn't gone yet.
When he's with his friends he's a different person. If he wants sex he suddenly starts giving me attention but soon after its back to the same again.
After xmas I decided to not speak to him only if needed and we haven't had one conversation despite both of us being at home!
Honestly, I think it's easier to get blood out a stone. I've tried and I have even talked to him about this and he just says it's my fault and to leave him alone. I don't want to keep bringing it up as it causes arguments but I don't know what to do. I feel stupid saying I want to leave because you don't talk to me but it's making me feel lonely, unloved, and is getting me down.