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Why does he keep deleting me and re-adding me?

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Westmidsmum1 · 28/12/2021 02:05

Will try and cut a long story short. I split with my sons dad last year and started seeing someone else, we got on well and i did actually start to fall for him, it came to an end when I found out he was chatting to many other women and I actually had a phone call from one of them. Not long after I then got back with my sons dad. Every few months since then he will randomly add me back on social media, now this is odd but he will add me on Facebook and then after a day or even less he will remove me again. He also does exactly the same on Snapchat. I know I shouldn't talk to him but I think there are still some feelings there so I always end up replying. We will talk as normal but then he will suddenly change, start ignoring me and then delete me again, until a few weeks or months later when he re adds me. We spoke all of Christmas night and I really enjoyed it, I know its wrong but I do still miss him. But he hasn't spoken to me since, ignoring my messages and has deleted me from Facebook again. I mean this guy is majorly messing with my head, part of me thinks he does like me and that's why he keeps pushing me away, but then if he did then why does he keep coming and going in my life and blowing hot and cold. I want to get him out of my head and stop giving into him when he messages me but it seems like I just can't, I dont even know why I'm posting this I guess I just want to hear others opinions..ty x

OP posts:
lisaandalan · 29/12/2021 23:21

Why are you not blocking him, also you are in a relationship, x

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