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9 years

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Secretlyneedsmore · 27/12/2021 15:09

I've been with him 9 years, been so rocky we don't live together though ,caught him 6 times playing online n other stuff ,he's never properly cheated on me yet !! He begged me a month ago to stay n try ,I've panned my ass off past 3 days pleasing everyone, I feel invisible to him but I have anxiety due to him and he never stops he never understands what he does

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SportsMother · 27/12/2021 15:13

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AttilaTheMeerkat · 27/12/2021 15:16

How can you be helped into getting away from him once and for all?.

Being a people pleaser as well is problematic; that likely started with you as a child trying to parent please.

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Secretlyneedsmore · 27/12/2021 15:53

Probably right ,

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Glindaswand · 27/12/2021 17:07

Don’t make it double up and become 18

girlmom21 · 27/12/2021 17:18

Stop wasting your time.

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