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First trip together!! HELP not to f..ck it up

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AstroGirl5 · 27/12/2021 14:29

Hi all - so we are on our first trip together after 1,5 month of dating. And I’m freaking out!!! I know I shouldn’t have expectations but my brain keeps painting the future with this guy I barely know. How do I stay grounded and just allow myself to gradually get to know him better before expecting anything else? Is it just me??!

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Theimpossiblegirl · 29/12/2021 22:51

Is this the Paris/Zurich man?
He sounds like hard work. It may have been a test but I'd say he's failed, not you.
You'll meet someone eventually. He's going to be alone forever.

Bonbon21 · 29/12/2021 22:55

I sincerely hope he paid his share before buggering off??
And he is an immature waste of skin... you are better off without him....

massiveblob · 30/12/2021 00:10

God it sounds like you dodged a bullet. (A weekend away also doesn't indicate marriage compatibility)

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