Follow on from the secrecy thread. Need a hand hold

[scorpiogirly]

I haven’t posted for a few days.

Basically new boyfriend was keeping me a secret from his ex as he thought she would go insane.

We had words again about it and he finally told her last night. She called him immediately. He said she took it better than he thought she would. Then she text him saying she wasn’t happy. Then proceeded to go through my Facebook looking for something she could use against me. I have gender Cristal views and she saw something I posted ages ago, send it to him and said that she doesn’t want me around her son for this reason and hinted at social services if I was.

He’s essentially ended the relationship on her say so as he is scared that she will stop him seeing their son.

I’m not sure what I am looking for here. Just need to get it out as no one to talk to in real life about it. Im hurt, but also do smacked that he could just bin me and the relationship off like this.

You force him to tell his ex about you who he doesn't want knowing because how she will act then get upset that she acts how he says she will act. Yes she is being a unreasonable he knew she would and now he has been left to choose between seeing his dc or you.
Seems your better of out of this drama sooner rather than later.

You didn't have a future;you had a spineless man who is a scared puppet to his batshit ex.

That's way too way drama.