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A triage is definitely over!

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MissSparkle47 · 15/12/2021 17:01

Hi everyone I want to give you an update. There is no going back for us he announced on the group family chat that our marriage is over🤷🏻‍♀️ He wants me to pay him out some money (absolute joke) which I am not going to do. I feel horrendous the doctors prescribed me tablets for anxiety and to help me sleep. I keep bursting out crying. He honestly thinks he's done nothing wrong (at all) and it's all my selfish ways. I have told my children now and they have been very supportive. When are things going to get easier? X

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MsDogLady · 15/12/2021 18:42

Sparkle, I thought you ended the marriage earlier this month, and had announced that it was due to his forbidding your children/grandchildren to visit your future home. Why is this still being dragged out?

I’m sorry that you are struggling. Flowers

MsDogLady · 15/12/2021 20:08

Sparkle, you will recover as time passes. You’ve been with an abuser and have a trauma bond, so you need time to recover. You are free now to enjoy your life and children without suffering his mistreatment, but need support to navigate your new world.

I can’t recall if you’ve ever had any counseling, but that would be the path I’d recommend.

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