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Is he into me romantically?

8 replies

Confidenceonfloor · 04/12/2021 17:46

Basically what the title says.Can't figure this out.Met a guy through a sport in summer-one off event.He took my number (I assumed as a friend)and has been texting since.Wants to meet for lunch/dinner lots which we've done.Not dates but just the two of us.Introduced me to his friends(one of whom thought we were together-I was seeing someone else at time),also his parents.He texts everyday.But on other hand he's said he was chatting up a mutual aquaintance-when I said make a move he said no.I had troubles with a guy I was dating and went to him for advice-he said knock it on head but definitely didn't seem jealous.I'm going thru some stuff at moment and he's been there more than some longstanding friends.He's also mentioned I might like a friend if his.Have I just acquired a really good straight male friend?I have other male friends but none who give me constant attention!

OP posts:
Dozer · 04/12/2021 17:49

Have you been in relationships the whole time you’ve known him?

Do you find him attractive? Are you seeking a relationship?

furbabymama87 · 04/12/2021 17:58

It's hard to say. I think he probably was or is interested but thought that you weren't and that's why he's mentioned the other woman to you to gauge your reaction. I wouldn't be texting every day and meeting one to one with a man if I wasn't interested in them romantically.

TobyEsterhase · 04/12/2021 18:15

Yes - he is definitely into you romantically

Confidenceonfloor · 04/12/2021 19:56

@Dozer nope.Was seeing somone casually but didn't work out so that's not what's stopping this guy.He's just texted now seeing if I'm free for a drink.Maybe I'm reading too much into it.Not really sure I fancy him tbh but just never had a male friend so friendly!

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Avarua · 04/12/2021 20:00

I thought that possibly he might be into you right up to the point in your thread where you said he mentioned a friend of his you might like.
No dude who wants to bag you would pass you onto his friend!!

He's not into you.

Confidenceonfloor · 04/12/2021 20:13

@Avarua yip that was my thought exactly!Maybe I'm just fab company so he wants to hangGrin

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TheFoundations · 04/12/2021 23:40

Do you want a man who confuses you with mixed signals from the off? Who doesn't communicate his feelings in a way you 'get'?

allycat4 · 04/12/2021 23:46

No! He's definitely not. Sorry. Men who want to go out with you, go out with you.

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