OLD - how often do you send the 1st message?

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Just that really.....

In theory I don't have a problem sending then1st message but my experience is generally, guys who don't message 1st typically seem less interested in chatting in general and it fizzles out faster.

Therefore, I'm wondering if the ones that are actually interested will message and those who don't, typical aren't that interested anyway?

I do both ,if the don't message after a few hours I send a hello amd if I get no response by the next day I just delete them

Same as PP- a mixture. Currently seeing the nicest guy I’ve ever met who I matched with on Tinder and sent first message. I’m so glad I did!

I was only swiping on men I was interested in so I was happy to message first but I read at the time that a lot of men would use it just to find out who swiped back as an who boost so I always tried to keep th t in mind if I got a little disappointed about the lack of interest. I met me DH on tinder and he went the first message

Never.

Also met DH on Tinder.