Getting closer and yet more distant?

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NC for this.
I have met a really lovely man, we’re we’re getting on super well. We have been getting closer but it appears he almost panics and gets scared? I can’t explain it any better, he is lovely wants to get closer talks and talks and the rest. We have a lovely night and then he distances himself, but then he will be the one to encourage us to get closer again?? It doesn’t make sense?
Please help a very confused me…. I am so close to ending it because of this. Even though I don’t want to, I genuinely don’t get it.

Have you asked him?

I do firmly believe the real deal should feel calming not anxiety triggering. Regardless of why he’s doing it, it’s how you feel that’s important.

There is no anxiety, I just feel angry when he is distant. He seems to have such mixed emotions? I have asked but never got a straight answer, maybe I need to be more direct