Marry for love or money ?

[novembeer]

If u have to marry someone which one u will choose love or money .. u cannot choose both so plz don't say both ..

If you make your own money, then is it worth marrying at all? Bit of a risk I’d say.

When I was younger I’d have said Love and I did. Problem is you can’t control how long it’s going to be reciprocated for.

Now I’m older and wiser I’d definitely say Money.

At least if you marry a rich man and he turns into an arsehole, you get 50%.

Money for me.

Love didn't work, I'm skint and exhausted by life.

Money is ephemeral though. It gets spent. The job gets lost. Any twist of fate can happen. I can't see how "marrying for money" is something you can guarantee will continue (in the manner to which you'd like to be accustomed)

Teamwork and making your own money are the ways forward

I'd rather be single than marry someone I didn't love but I wouldn't love someone who was work shy. They don't have to be rich however, just reasonably intelligent with a decent work ethic.

I'd be part of a teamwork set up.
He gives me money, I spend it.
I'd be happy at home doing all the houseworky stuff.

Make your own money. Don't get married.

Neither. Don't marry.

Love, no question.

Love ofcourse

Love.
I wouldn’t be able to tolerate another person in my personal space without love.

@ChippyChipper

When I was younger I’d have said Love and I did. Problem is you can’t control how long it’s going to be reciprocated for.

Now I’m older and wiser I’d definitely say Money.

At least if you marry a rich man and he turns into an arsehole, you get 50%.

You will have to fight for every penny to get that 50%.

Marry for money and you will earn every penny of it.

Money.
I'm not gonna to lie.

Love doesn’t exist

What a sad comment. Of course it does!

@Time40

Love doesn’t exist

What a sad comment. Of course it does!

I don’t think it’s sad, just reality.

I married for love and ended up being dumped for another woman, having my self esteem trampled, having to sell my home and lost out on having kids. Love is a lie, used by Hollywood to sell movies. Marry for money ladies.. you will be much better for it!

@Time40

Love doesn’t exist

What a sad comment. Of course it does!

Balls..

If it existed, you could prove it very easily.
Belief does not equal existence.

Love 100%

I left a relationship where I was doing ok, young and on low wages but paying off a low mortgage and would have been debt free by now (mid 30s). I took on a loan when I left to effectively buy myself out of the relationship. Ended up in more debt. Rented for 10 years and had to start from scratch and I don't regret it one bit as I found love and happiness. Some of my best memories are from times when I had no money in the bank and was raiding the copper jar to buy toilet roll. We laugh about it now.

I'm also a lot more financially stable now thankfully

I tried love too many times, This time I choose money!

Money can't buy you love! So sayeth the song. If you truly love someone,you put up with and get through the hard times. They loose their job, have a terrible accident, become disabled.

I would have quite liked to have married into money, but I wouldn’t have done it deliberately. I married a man not from money, but with a good work ethic and who I love.

It’s a balancing act really— an old saying is when money flies out the window, love flies out the door— on the other hand if you don’t really love a guy but he has money, unless you are lucky that they aren’t around much, you’re going to be spending a lot of time in their company which is hard if there really isn’t any love at all.

I think if you’re going to marry for money that’s OK, but at least choose someone you respect and like and get on with well. Plenty of countries have arranged marriages which work on that basis.

That would be my ideal.
Someone I really liked, who liked me back, and who could provide me with a comfortable life.

That is how a lot of loved up people end up, anyway.

Not really a believer of love,so i’ll say, MONEY!