(where to start) Hi advice needed,i was with my ex gf for 21 years with 3 kids,im now 45,we split up 5 months ago and thought i-we were coping well ,im a single parent,anyway today i have found out that 2 weeks after we broke up she has had a baby and to top it of its with a so called friend,she was obviously pregnant while with me,but she is a larger women and i couldnt tell,i feel so crushed,hurt,betrayed its hurting so much ,how comes someone can do this to another person they was with for so long,my 16 year old boy was with me when i found out and has not stopped crying sad: my daughter does not seem to care,why stay with us right up to the point she was going to give birth ,i have texted her saying i know,and how could she do it to us and i wished her all the best in the future,i just dont understand why would a women do this to someone ,it feels like the ultimate betrayle an ex gf could do,sorry about the spelling,my mind is shot and thanks for your advice