Hi it’s now been 4 weeks since I left and the relief has been overwhelming.
I’m sat having a cuppa and thinking about the future as today I move into a lovely rented house with my little cat and my dog, it’s going to be wonderful to feel like me again with my own space.
I have sold the house !! That went on the first week it went to the market so now just going through the legal process and even better it’s a no chain sale.
I have bought myself my own car and handed his car back , the feeling of independence and freedom is amazing.
I have noticed that everything in the house has been paid for by me ! I have been a total fool and have allowed myself to be totally walked all over, it’s been a real eye opener and not something I will ever again repeat.
I went into this relationship with an open heart and thought he did too the first 2.5 years were good until we got the house and it all became about him and I was totally taken for granted and my feelings were disregarded.
He has excepted this without any resistance and gone along with everything so that tells me he was using me and now I’m no longer useful he couldn’t give a dam.
If I had known leaving him would of been this easy I would of left a long time ago.
So if your in my situation just jump and give yourself your life back it’s bumpy at times but so much better than putting up with an unhappy life to suit someone else’s needs.
Here’s to my new start 🥂onwards and upwards xx