I’ll try to not make this long winded but I’m hoping someone can help,
So me and boyfriend have been together for 4 years, living together for 3 and I’m at the stage where I really want kids now. We’ve spoken about it numerous times and we did start TTC 2 years ago and fell pregnant but unfortunately miscarried but nothing was said about kids again until I bought it up 6 months later and he came up with excuses as to why now was not the right time.
Fast forward to a year later and I had enough and did leave him and when we got back together 5 weeks later it was because he was ready to start TTC again but then it never happened because he started with excuses again and when I bring it up he says I’m “pushing for kids” or I’m “forcing kids” on him.
He already has a 5 year old daughter from a previous relationship so I guess I’m just wondering if it’s just me he doesn’t want kids with or am I being the unreasonable one?