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An idiot ex

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user688897766788 · 05/11/2021 09:19

How do you physically get over someone getting back with their ex weeks after you ended? It's so difficult he says he didn't cheat but I don't know how I can feel otherwise I'm doubting our whole relationship

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TurnUpTurnip · 05/11/2021 10:42

How long were you with him? Do they have children?

GreenFingersWouldBeHandy · 05/11/2021 10:43

How long were you together and how long had he been split up with ex?

Why did you split up?

jeaux90 · 05/11/2021 10:53

I'd look at it as a bullet dodged.

user688897766788 · 05/11/2021 11:37

He does have a child and it's the baby mum lol she had already got someone else when I was with him and we were together about 9 months but I've not had a relationship for over 5 uears and I didn't dodge a bullet if he cheated lol

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TurnUpTurnip · 05/11/2021 11:40

Tbf I’ve never really understood the phrase dodge a bullet? How if they treated you badly and they broke up with you? How is it dodging a bullet the bad thing has already happened and you’ve already been hurt! Off topic but never really get that saying as it wasn’t actually dodged! 🤷‍♀️

I had a feeling they had a child it’s usually the case when they go back to an ex, it sounds like you are right that he either cheated or was never actually single?

user688897766788 · 05/11/2021 14:35

Well she was with somebody else before

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user688897766788 · 05/11/2021 14:38

Didn't think he was the cheating type at all but do you ever really know anybody

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