Why is she doing this?

[Ezzy4545]

Ever since my ex friends with benefits told me he doesn't want to hear from me again his female friend looks at my stories around the same date each month. Why is she doing this? She doesn't have me on social media and has never spoke to me irl.

Because she can't wait to tell him you're in another relationship - she's a nosey cow - she has a crush on you.

Cos she fancies him / they got a thing.. and wants to know how u match up to her

She has a boyfriend

What stories is she viewing and how would you even know

Your ex borrows her phone to check on you when he meets up with her for monthly coffee date?

Maybe she wants to tell you something that he was up to (eg: sleeping with other ppl at the same time as you).

Maybe she fancies him/is sleeping with him even though she has a bf (especially likely if he is Mr 'I won't commit')

Perhaps she just thinks you are pretty.

If it bothers you that much, why not just drop her a message and ask?

It tells me who watches my stories and when she looks she doesn't miss one

They both go to different unis and they are far far away from eachother

What tells you fb doesn't do this?

Just block her so she can't see your stories anymore (as there's no need for her to see them and it's taking up your headspace for some reason) and forget about it!

Isn't life too short for this?!

Instagram

Watches your stories? Which site is this on?

She’s a nosey cow, just block her on all your social media and make sure he’s blocked too.

You sure she is even real and not just hus fake profile?

Just block her. And him obviously.

@Morgantowers

Watches your stories? Which site is this on?

On Instagram it tells you who has watched your stories.

@Ezzy4545

He told me not to msg his friends or he will call the cops

That either means you have form for harassing him OR that he knows his friends can tell you something he didn't tell you. Presumably that he had a gf all the time you two were sleeping together.

But do yourself a favor and just block them all.

I will do don't worry I've learnt from my mistake

He told me not to msg his friends or he will call the cops

I'm assuming he said this because you have harassed his friends before? I can't think why else someone would have said that.

What's a story on Instagram? Is it some kind of post that you are making each month?

@Flowersintheattic2021

What tells you fb doesn't do this?

If you swipe up on your Facebook story it tells you who has viewed it. Instagram is the same.

It sounds like he saw you as more benefits and less friends and you thought the opposite. Block this woman and move on.

Jealous morbid curiosity...bit like a rubber necker on the motorway when there's a crash.

After he said that he doesn't want to hear from me again he viewed my stories but hasn't again since that day

@Ezzy4545

He told me not to msg his friends or he will call the cops

Why... What did you do to his friends OP?