thank you thank you alll!!!! update :D

[peanuts02]

Ladies, and gentlemen xx i want to thank you all so much for sharing your opinions on my last post i posted in February. I want to update you all and say that i have been accepted for a house and i should have my own place by mid november.
I know many of you were unsure if my original post was real, and i dont blame you. i deleted my account incase he found out i posted that. But i have created a new one just to let you know how truely greatful that i am to everyone that gave their views on my post. Every now and then i would go back and read through it all to remind myself that i am on the right path.
Thank you, i honestly feel so much better. I was offered a house in march but i turned it down out of the fear that i cant survive on my own. But this time i am ready.
Just thank you!! I will add a link to my previous post

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/4169289-Advice-please-on-sex

Well done @peanuts02. Hope you and your DC are really happy; you've done an amazing thing

@whatsyournamethisismine Thank you! im not sure the kids are to confident about it as this is all they know and i think the change is scary to them

Well done.
Are you still living with him at the moment ?

@GoodnightGrandma Yes i am, and it actually helped me realise how much i dont love him. I know if i had moved out when i was offered the first house i would have very much doubted my choice. But still being here has made me know that i am making the right choice

Well done Peanuts, I’m so happy for you and your boys. Sending you lots of love and happiness

Are you safe at the moment still living with him?

@Name99 yes, he has tried to touch me a couple of times and was annoyed that i swatted his hands away. But i told him its my body and that they are unwanted advances. I sleep next to my kids and he works long shifts so i barely see him

@VioletVesper Thank you!

No offence, but I shall save my congratulations for when you are actually safe living permanently apart from him

Keep going but you are not there yet

@AnyFucker i shall keep you posted!

Is he aware that you are leaving?

Ah, good luck OP! What a brill post! I bet you're on countdown now

@Name99 yes he has known for a while and has already been out meeting with other women for "walks"

@Mulhollandmagoo Thank you, i may have had a celbratory wine this evening :D

I shall look forward to it 🙏

@anyfucker me too!

Aw well done for finding the strength to leave him op...wishing you and your children a lifetime of happiness xx

@Forgothowmuchlhatehomeschoolin thank you xx

Congratulations. Only a month to go until you are out of there. Well done for being so strong.

Great news! Well done for getting this organised. Hope it all goes as smoothly as possible.

You go, girl!!!!

Congratulations 👏🎉

Well done

Reading your first thread made me feel ill, he’s a monster doing that to you. No one who loved you would do that.

Dh had a colleague into all that sort of thing and I always wondered how many women actually wanted to be at their “parties”.

well done