Hi,
I recently got back in touch with and started seeing an old flame again from 10 years ago. We were both 18 when we were seeing each other before and it just fizzled out because we were young, however not spoke for 10 years until recently. We have been seeing each other again for about a month and during that time going to each other’s houses 2-3 times a week and also sleeping together. At the start I was clear about wanting something more than just fun and he said the same to me. We normally text through the day as well. However the other day he text me out of the blue asking if I had been talking to other guys, I said no I hadn’t (which is true) and asked where that had come from and he said it was just a feeling he had. Things have felt weird on text since then and I sent him a message saying that things felt weird and asking if he still wanted to carry things on or not, said I like where things are going but wouldn’t want to carry on if he doesn’t. I got a vague response saying he had been busy and not directly answering the question, he basically deflected my own question back on me and again I said I would want to carry on but not if he doesn’t want to as I don’t want to mess around. He’s read it and no reply, that was yesterday evening. What action should I take from here, should I send a text saying “is that it then?” Or just leave it? Very disappointed and quite sad because I did think it would go somewhere and was liking the pace, it wasn’t too fast or too slow considering we knew each other from before x