He’s living with someone else

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Been with my bf for 13 months, we don’t live together and thought it was long term. Been there when members of his family passed away from covid, helped him move house when he bought his own place in July. Went on numerous holidays in UK and abroad. His work pattern has changed so working more late nights now. Haven’t heard much from him the last 4 weeks, he’s found someone else and she’s living with him. I’ve asked him to talk as I want to know where it all went wrong, please stop me turning up at his house this morning asking him to talk. I’m distraught and just want answers

Horrible man and you’re the winner here. I know it doesn’t feel like it but you are well rid. Do not contact him, block him everywhere.

Can you turn your focus to something else? I got ghosted and started walking/running. I don’t enjoy it but it somehow helped, kept me busy and I was always tired when I got home.

Coward cheater. That is the reason why, no other.
Block him, delete his number.
His family sounds lovely. Shame about them.
Take good care of yourself. Spend some time taking care of yourself.

WHAT AN UTTER SHIT HE IS!! I'm so sorry OP xxx

OP I’m not sorry that that guy is well out of my life. He was a thief, a liar and a cheat and he screwed over so many people. His mum kept in touch with me for a while afterwards and told me all the awful things he did. Nasty piece of work and I am glad I didn’t get further entangled with him.

It happened a long time ago but I still remember the intensity of the pain and how terrible I felt for the first few days and weeks. Be kind to yourself. Don’t beat yourself up about the text. Better times are ahead.

I'm so sorry OP that's horrible. It sounds so cliche but honestly it will get better with time. Sending love to you xxx

Thanks all, after I sent the long message I felt like a weight had been lifted. Been busy with my new home. I’ve been thinking a lot and it wasn’t a perfect relationship so I’m better off out of it